My use case has containers and reverse proxy all rootless on a given machine. TLS certs pulled at proxy level. I explicitly group small clusters of relevant services per machine. Authentik and other utilities live on one machine. Things like Jellyfin and Navidrome on another, etc.
The real way to achieve the same using user isolation rather machine isolation (given you’d be having multiple reverse proxies on one machine) is to have a second layer reverse proxy with no TLS or anything, simply handling the routing to the then off-port HTTPS connections published at system level.
For my public-facing stuff, the reverse proxy on my VPS does roughly the same thing, taking my HTTPS connections and either directly forwarding, or decrypting and rewriting the cert to a wildcard one I use if I need packet filtering or other tech for a given service. Having well-defined network ranges and reverse proxies being assigned static addresses (container-level networking or otherwise) helps significantly when working out your trusted proxies config at each layer.



Not that I should even bother, but:
If my recommendations reflect a common consensus in this community, then perhaps there is good reason they are popular, no? In my case, I personally know the person who runs the VPS I rent and do actively trust them. I know that situation isn’t going to be the same for everyone, but if you don’t fully trust your VPS provider, there’s a reason TLS forwarding and ZTT solutions like Tailscale exist.
And sorry my writing isn’t to your expectations, I guess.